Shake your worries out!

April 2, 2013 in Guests, Hearth and Home, Pagan Family, Pagan Spirituality

I had the privilege of writing and forming my circle’s Ostara ritual this year, I do have to say it wasn’t the standard plant the seeds you have already chosen at Imbolc theme. We see the Lady and Lord as the Bright Maiden of Spring and the Divine Youth of the Sun at this time of year, they celebrate the new life sprouting and budding all around us. I really think of the fun and innocence of childhood at this season, it’s a time of beginnings, of promises we make to ourselves and each other. The world is waking up after a long sleep; the secrets and mysteries we discovered in the shadows of winter can now be looked at and appreciated in daylight. The world is filled with hopefulness and optimism for the future, plans are set in motion, the foundations to root, nurture and grow the seeds, projects, changes we want to make are ready.

Spring is a wonderful time, all the drabness of winter transforms into fresh green, bird songs fill the air again, insects return, the creatures of the forest are busy finding or making dens, even the eagles where I live are rebuilding or creating new nests. Every creature is preparing for the growing season, the sun entices us to be outdoors, subtle scents travel on the wind, breezes scatter blossoms, a feeling of excitement and potential just saturates the air.  It was this feeling I wanted to capture in our ritual, it is a good thing to have goals and plans, yet sometimes the work involved to create the future harvest feels and sometimes literally is a daunting task. I decided to focus on mirth and stress relief for our ritual, so we played the laughing game, basically the leader starts laughing and the next person has to laugh better than the previous one all the way round the circle. The second round involves laughing about a problem you are experiencing, the leader starts again, it goes something like this… “Ha! Ha! Ha!  It’s going to be another financially challenging month! He He He!”  The next person goes and so on, all are encouraged to laugh with each other, and it’s a fun way to release stress. During the third round people lie on the floor with heads together and create a laughing wave, it’s almost like chanting with a new laugh picking up while another is fading out. We were all literally rolling on the floor laughing! If you want to learn more about these techniques check out laughter yoga.

For our activity and working we made Bleggs, and we shook our worries out. A Bliss Egg is a fun version of a worry stone, it’s used to shake your worries away, and it just happens to be made with those plastic eggs that surround us at this time of year and a few magical ingredients that fit inside. My eggs had jingle bells for mirth, seeds to grow beyond your worries, googly eyes to see things from a different perspective, various words, stickers, small paper flowers for spring and foam happy faces inside. Our bleggs were empowered with a song and we literally shook our eggs and ourselves to shake our worries out. The idea is to shake the bliss egg whenever life feels more like a challenge than an adventure and to think of the qualities it holds.

I know some “fundamental” Pagans would be horrified at this ritual though there was the usual structure to it. I see the 8 Sabbats as times to celebrate, moon rituals are the time I do “serious” work, and our holy days are family friendly, that means I need to accommodate everyone from our youngest 7yr old to our beautiful grandmother crone.  I’m always delighted when our young participants offer to pass out the cakes and drink after they are blessed, it makes it a double blessing in my eyes, though some say it’s because they want to see how much is left over for later. (chuckle) Could be, it doesn’t matter, I just think its way cool that they want to be involved! You know how they say witches are born, some of us discover our truth, and some don’t. I think there be young witches among us!

If you are having challenges, remember to laugh and just blegg it!

My Blegg!

My Blegg!

Abundant Blessings

So what’s the deal with Imbolc?

February 4, 2013 in Hearth and Home, Uncategorized

The days are getting longer and the wheel keeps turning, even though our planet is going through many changes I feel reassured by the seasonal cycles, that all things have a pattern that make up the “bones or structure” of the year. I love Imbolc because it signifies to me that I have made it through the winter months, the days are getting longer, the seasons of planting and growing will return, and it’s time to start planning for what I wish to create and manifest during the year. I feel like the trees, my inner sap is rising into an explosion of life, and I feel that energy around me, especially in the forest.

In these modern times we have families, work, service, activities and responsibilities that often don’t mesh with the “appointed time” of an event. There are some folks out there who practise what I call “Fundamental Paganism” and insist everything has to be spot on; I do understand that if you are doing a working and desire specific energy for a precise purpose, getting all the ducks in a row is of benefit, however sabbats are “a festevus for the rest of us”. Time is a human concept we use to measure life spans, the length of days etc. I have never been less blessed for honouring a Sabbat at a time that is not exact, I don’t think the powers that be mind if it’s early or late, it is the act of taking time out of our regular lives to remember and honour the deities, energies and seasons that makes it important.

Imbolc is one of the greater sabbats it’s also known as Imbolg, Oimelc, Brigit, Brigantia, Bride’s Day, and Candlemas. For our ancestors it marked the time when ewe’s began to produce milk for their young, and has many associations with dairy products for that reason. The Goddess Brigit is associated with this day for her links to animal husbandry, healing, light and fire, and the story that she danced with candles on her head to distract the Roman soldiers from capturing baby Jesus. Some of the animals who have been hibernating begin to stir, we even have Groundhog Day on Feb 2nd, if our furry friends emerge to a cloudy day spring is here, if it’s sunny and the shadow shows winter will last another 6 weeks. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that the next Sabbat Ostara,/Spring Equinox, planting time, is six weeks down the road, do you?

The Lady and Lord are seen as young children and Valentine’s Day originally celebrated simple child like love without the adult orientation. This is also a perfect time of year to think about your unique gifts to the world and how to strengthen and nourish those talents throughout the coming year. The earth will spring to life, the land will become fertile again, the sun is getting stronger, the days longer and warmer and unlike Yule when changes are subtle, you do notice it’s not dark in the late afternoon. It’s a very hopeful time, the physical planting time has not arrived, this is a sabbat of thoughts and ideas, mapping out the direction you wish to go physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.

One of the popular activities of this festival is blessing seeds, you can do a general blessing or choose a specific seed for a goal and bless it, keep the seeds on your altar until planting time. You could light candles to welcome the sun’s warmth and/or bless candles that you are designating for ritual use throughout the wheel of the year. Many people also bless and/or consecrate magical tools at this sabbat for use during the year, blessing is a general type of energy whereas consecrating means you will only use the item for a specific purpose, I discussed how to do that in my last two columns. Imbolc reminds me of promises, we often think of them in reference to other people, however it is also important to make pledges to ourselves, to recommit to our personal and spiritual growth, some folks also choose this sabbat to rededicate to a specific deity or their spiritual path.

At this time I think about the seeds resting in the earth, it won’t be too long until they germinate and begin the journey of growth that pushes up through the soil reaching towards the sun. Plants are so magical, the sun and their mojo (that we know as chlorophyll) transmutes into a form of sugar that makes them grow, by the magical process called photosynthesis. Plants are a wonderful example of alchemy at work; they celebrate their growth with flowers, when blossoms fade seeds remain with the promise and potential for the next generation.

Seeds also teach us about patience, like them, if we push too hard or too early it may defeat the natural progression of a cycle, we end up with stunted growth or something totally unexpected. Yes, you still need a healthy dose of focused thought and emotion to activate the Universal laws that is their water and fertilizer; however they need the freedom and right environment to flourish. That’s where we come in, spend a few minutes every day thinking about what you wish to create in your life this year, you might like to write it down and read it aloud when you wake and then before you sleep. That sends a clear signal to the powers that be, that you are open for business and not merely dabbling. After stating your desired outcomes remember to say thank you and connect with the feelings of how it will be to have that goal manifest. Also be open to any guidance, messages or impressions you receive while creating your year, you might like to keep a journal for this purpose. When you think about your wishes, remember to dream big, the forces of life have more stored potential than we can ever imagine. Happy seed thoughts to all!

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Mabon Wreath

September 21, 2011 in Guests

September 23rd is the Fall Equinox this year and as I know it called by some it is “Pagan Thanksgiving.”

This year I decided to do a zero budget craft with the family, a Mabon Thanksgiving Wreath. The wreath is purposely made only of materials that are flammable so that if you so wish you could burn it as part of a magickal working.

Supplies

  • Assorted branches
  • Twine (not nylon)
  • Construction Paper in Red, Yellow, Orange & Brown.
  • Single hole punch
  • Writing instrument
  • Scissors
  • Printer

Instructions

  1. Making the WreathCollect branches from anywhere you can. We happen to have a couple of oak trees our yard that were happy to oblique us with some fallen branches.
  2. Break up the branches into smaller segments, I’d say no more than a foot in length.
  3. On a surface lay the branches something to resembles a circle.
  4. Use pieces of twine to sure the branches together. It will probably take quite a few pieces to do so.
  5. Now the base of the wreath is complete.

Making the Leaves

  1. Save this graphic of all the leaves to your computer.
  2. Construction paper is typically bigger than 8 1/2 x 11 paper but I found that if you cut it to that size you can put it in your printer like any other paper and print the image on it. If you don’t want to print this directly onto the construction paper you could print them onto paper and make patterns for each leaf to trace. I found printing directly to be a lot faster.
  3. Print the image but be careful to not have it “Size to fit the Page” or parts of the leaves will end up cut off.
  4. After the Leaves are printed cut them all out.
  5. Using the single hole punch, punch a hole in each leaf. This will be used to tie them to the wreath.

The Finishing Up

  1. Now gather up the family or whoever is participating. On each leaf write something you are thankful for or makes you happy. Lil ‘R is a bit young to understand exactly what being thankful for something is so I just asked him what made him happy.
  2. Use bits of twine and tie each leaf to your twig wreath you previously made.
  3. Voila! Complete now place somewhere in your home, your altar or burn it. What you want to do with it is your choice.

I hope you all enjoyed this craft project. If anyone makes one I’d love to see it so post a link to the photo if you make one yourself. Maybe I should put together a flickr group.

Please come by my site also Treegold & Beegold

-Velody

Children’s Mojo Bag

September 20, 2011 in Guests

As I sit here and write this, it is the second day of school. The past few weeks have been busy in our household from various things going on in our everyday lives. Last week we met my son’s second grade teacher at the annual open house. I was unable to go through all of the paper I received until this afternoon when my youngest child is currently taking his nap.

Within all the mounds of paperwork sitting upon the corner on my kitchen counter I began to read through all of the papers. Within the stack was a Ziploc bag containing several items. Going thru page by page, I finally found the meaning of the Ziploc bag. It included:

• The Cotton Ball is to remind you that this room is full of kind words and fuzzy warm feelings.
• The sticker is to remind you that we all stick together and help each other.
• The rubber band is to remind you to hug someone.
• The penny is to remind you that you are valuable and special.
• The star is to remind you that always shine and try your best.
• The tissue is to remind you to dry someone else’s tears.
• The toothpick is to remind you to “pick out” the good qualities in your classmates and also in yourself.
• The band-aid is to remind you to heal hurt feelings in your friends and in yourself.
• The thread is to remind you that friendship ties our hearts together.
• The eraser is to remind you that everyone makes mistakes and that it is ok whenever we do.
• The Lifesaver is to remind you that you can come to me if you need someone to talk too!

My first thought was “Hey this could be a Mojo bag!” At least I plan on turning it into one for my children. I also plan on making a similar type of bag for my family as well, one for each individual person that we can take along whenever we are not with the rest of the family. “Dad” could have one at work in his desk, Lancer can take one with him whenever he is spending the night at Grandma’s or a friend’s house for an overnighter, and I can have one in my purse for safe keeping whenever I am not with the family so that we can have a tangible reminder and “access” to one another’s energy. I plan on including a small photo within the bag of our family.

I tried researching the origin of this as I am sure his teacher that gave it to us is not the original author. I have also found several other “kits” on the internet that people can make as well. Just the thought of using everyday objects that are in my child’s life seemed to click and he really liked the bag that his teacher gave him. Just think how much fun he will have creating his very own special bag as well for our family! We talked about it last night and he even wants to use his favorite Star Wars figurines to represent the family in his Mojo Bag. It’s nice to know that my son thinks of me worthy of the title “Princess”, especially since there are so many female characters now a days within the Empire.

This also could be something one could do for each Sabbat or Esbat as well. Using everyday items (not necessarily those that we think magical) within our magick and being physical tools to help teach our children about what we believe and why we believe it on a level they can better understand. I simply thought this was a cute and unique idea (one I had not previously seen before) so I might be a bit enthusiastic about doing this with my children. I am always looking for ways to practice with my children and its tough for families whose children are so young. Those raising teens might (I am in no way saying its easier since I do not have a teen) be able to communicate better with their children about faith than those like myself with a two year old. He can barely understand why Mommy wants him to brush his teeth or the importance of taking a bath compared to an older child. My older son who understands why those two things are important has a problem with understanding why I make him read for an hour every day over being able to play an electronic game. Just finding new ideas on how to share my faith with my children (in this case I think this activity would cover both of them) gives me hope there are ways I can share with them out there and the Goddess will make them known when the time is right!

Sincerely,
Crystal LunaRouge

Your Beliefs… A Family Focus

June 9, 2011 in Guests

A wonderful article was recently posted entitled: Creed of My Family Coven.  It gave an amazing example of a family creed and poses questions to help you create your own personal family creed.  This is a wonderful activity for the entire family that helps lend guidance to your life and the choices you and your family will make.

Once your family has written a family creed how can you get your children to internalize and live by the principals and ethics your family believes in?

Well, for the most part children are simple little beings.  They tend to model and repeat (sometimes to our dismay) what is seen and heard day in and day out.  Those adults that surround them most often will have the largest impact.  Therefore, a good place to start is to personally live the way you want your children to live.  Show them through example what it looks like and sounds like to live by the creed your family has chosen.

During the hours of the day that your children are not with you, surround them with positive role models.  Make sure that the people in charge of caring for your children understand how you expect your children to be treated and how you expect your children to treat others.  It is perfectly exceptable to share your family creed at a parent teacher conference.  Even though your family creed may be spiritual in nature it is by far more of a guideline to a respectful and loving existence.  Hard to find fault in that…

Making Your Family Creed a Focus Every Day: 

  • Start by working with your family to create a artistic display for your home.  Brainstorm ways to do this that include a bit of input from everyone.  Little ones might be able to color.  Older children can write the creed out in fancy lettering.  Mom can assemble the finished product in a frame or scrapbook style wall display.  & Dad can find the perfect place in the kitchen or family room to hang the final masterpiece.
  • Select a time when the family is together daily (dinner, family time) and reread your family creed.  Discuss ways you have chosen to live by the principals.  For children, it is especially helpful to give examples of times you did something difficult in order to live the kind of life your family has agreed upon.

With a little family planning and a few minutes each day, you and those you love can grow closer to the earth and the Goddess.  The time spent renewing your beliefs and reflecting on your life will be time well spent.

Brightest blessings to you & yours.

Capturing the Elements

April 13, 2011 in Guests

Here in Las Vegas, even on a moonless night the sky is bright with street lights and casino lights; even the quieter subdivisions seem ever-lit by porch lamps carelessly allowed to burn throughout the always active, constantly busy, nights.

In the two years I have been here I cannot remember seeing a single star.

Our house sits on the corner of two streets lined with little houses deep in the middle of a fairly large subdivision.  Our backyard consists of a cement slab, surrounded by pink rocks, three high cement walls and three dry, barren looking “trees.”

I miss my home.

In some ways, moving to the desert has given me a new appreciation of what Earth is, and what Fire is.  It has also reminded me of the importance of family, of spirit, and of how lonely it can be when you feel relentlessly cut-off from or out-of-balance with the elements.

And yet, it was here in this barren treeless valley that I decided it was time to live a pagan life with my children.  It was here that I decided I could no longer hide who and what I really am, and so it is here that I struggle to find new ways to appreciate the unseen and the untouchable, for myself and for my children.

It is spring.

Yet the only environmental indicators of such are the rapidly rising temperatures by day, and the sudden infatuation the boys in the neighborhood have, once again, with baseball.  Today, despite my determination against it, I actually had to turn on the air conditioner, and I have to admit, that even my Jayson seems to have caught baseball fever.   I, however, feel we have skipped Spring entirely and are already well into another, hot, endless summer.

Which brings me to the point of this article –

“How do you teach your children to recognize and internalize the signs of the seasons if you cannot recognize or internalize them yourself?”

That is the question I have been asking myself a lot lately – and the other night, Grandmother Moon inspired in me, an answer.

“Find it,” she said, “find it and take a picture!”

So, that my friends’ is exactly what my children and I intend to do.  You’ve heard of, I’m sure, those photo-a-day challenges, or photo-every week- for a year challenges.  Well – we’re going to photograph the elements, every week, a few times a week, until we feel that we REALLY know them.   Whether it takes a few months, a few years, or a few decades – we are going to seek out and photograph the Elements, even, no- especially, when they seem no where to be found.

Yes – there will undoubtedly be the obvious: a photograph snapped of a flame for Fire, or a fountain for Water, maybe a bird caught mid-flight will represent Air and a rock for Earth; but as we explore and really seek out the Elementals, I’m hoping to see photographs of more discreet representations – Water represented by Old Age, or Air represented by Intellect or Inspiration; a photograph of a young child or the strength of muscular man to represent Earth and perhaps Fire will be represented by a simple snapshot of a newborn inhaling the breath of life for the very first time.

  • For myself, I take this challenge very… not seriously, but very deeply.  It is a challenge, to learn to see them where I have previously taken their presence for granted – to find them where they are not typically found.
  • For my oldest son, I wish to inspire him, to see the Elementals in their natural, obvious states, and to question them.  For every obvious photograph of Water, is there not also a representation of Fire?  Of Earth?  Of Air?  I seek to challenge him to see it, to feel them and to learn from them; to find balance in every manifestation.
  • For my younger children, including my oldest daughter – I wish simply to introduce them.  Just as we have walked 100 times before, physically touching and discovering the elements through nature walks and scavenger hunts – now through the eye of a camera, I wish them to discover the elements in things they cannot so easily touch or take with them; to find them in the bigger picture, and to find them within a smaller frame.

Now, instead, of a bag to bring home our treasures, we take with us our cameras and our field journals, and when we get home we can pull them up on the computer, discuss them, print them and create for ourselves our own private Book of Elements to grow with and to pass down through the generations.  And what a wonderful teaching tool it will be…

Blessings and Namaste,

Luhnna

Wand Making with Children

March 31, 2011 in Guests

With warm weather on the way, taking a nature walk is as a natural as the turning of the wheel. While out and about with your children, have them on the look out for the perfect wand making stick.  The stick can be any length your child deems.  It should be sturdy and strong which leans toward a diameter of at least nickel size.

Note:  It is important to only use a stick that has been offered… fallen from a tree.  Never remove a branch from a tree in order to make a wand.

Once the perfect stick is located have your child remove all loose bark.  Sand any rough edges to cut down the odds of getting a splinter.   Your child can sand the entire stick if they prefer a smooth, finished look.

Finally, add a bit of decorative flare to the wand.  Ribbon, long grasses, beads, crystals, etc can be tired or glued onto the wand to make the wand as spunky as the child that will yield it.

With completed wand in hand, have your child ask the Goddess for her blessing on this magical tool.  If possible, perform the blessing under the light of the full moon.  Below is something very simple your child could say while holding his or her wand to the heart:

Mother Earth bless this wand
I hold upon my heart.
Send your love to let me know
the goodness it imparts.

What spring time activities do your have planned for your children?  How does your family get out and commune with nature?