How Deep is Your Conviction?

July 26, 2011 in Homeschooling

For many people, the commitment to homeschool is a lifetime commitment. It’s a bigger decision than buying a house or building a business. It’s a decision that goes beyond politics or religion. But universe has recently put two questions upon me, “What is the commitment?” and “Who is the commitment to?”

Is my commitment to homeschool my children through high school? Or is my commitment to give my children the best education possible? If my commitment is to homeschool, how can I continue doing that as a temporarily-single homeschooling work-at-home mom? If my commitment is for the best education possible, does that really mean that one year in a public school in a state at the bottom of the education report card is the best thing for them?

If the commitment to homeschool is to myself, that I have to do what’s right in my heart. For me, this would mean keeping the kids home, regardless of the consequences. Of course, there are always consequences to deal with and none of them are insurmountable.

If the commitment is to my children, then I need to take their wishes into consideration and make decisions that will provide the best results for them. But when are they old enough to begin making these kinds of decisions? Three of my four children want to go to public school this year. As their mom, I am so tempted to allow them this choice for one year only. But as their teacher, I am quite hesitant to let them go. And for my daughter who wants to stay home, what do I do with her when I have to work?

My conviction is quite deep. I have never had any doubts in my ability to homeschool my kids through high school. Things have been rough and quite a challenge, but they are finally old enough for more rigorous academics and a tougher schedule. These are the years I’ve been looking forward to since I started this journey. Even letting them go to school for one year feels like giving up on this and letting go of my dream.

What it comes down to, for me, is whether I should follow my heart or my head.

Springtime Books

April 28, 2011 in Guests

With the warming of the earth and springtime well on its way, many are in search of the perfect resource in order to bring the season alive for their children.  Books are a wonderful way to engage a young child and teach them a bit along the way.

Books for Spring:

The Sun Egg

The Sun Egg by Elsa Beskow:  A magical story filled with elves, woodland creatures, and the mysterious sun egg.  A young elfin girl learns about the true identity for the egg she believe was left behind by the sun.

Your child will experience a wealth of learning while reading this book with you: inferencing (guessing what things are based on evidence from the story), predicting (guessing what will happen next based on what has happened so far and experiences in the real word), story telling (retelling the story after the story is finished… This can be orally or through drawings.) and creative expression (Creating art based on the story.  One thought would be to use orange and yellow paint to create a wet-on-wet painting.  Cutting the painting into circles would make a magical version of the sun egg itself).

How Robin Saved Spring

How Robin Saved Spring byDebbie Ouellet:  This is the story of two sisters: Lady Winter and Sister Spring.  Lady Winter does not want her sleeping sister to awaken and winter to cease.  Lady Winter does her best to keep spring at bay.  The creatures of the forest, however, long for the return of warmth and green.  With every effort, creatures both large and small work together to awaken Sister Spring before it is too late.

The illustrations in this story are absolutely captivating.  The vibrant colors appear to jump off the page.  Little ones will sit captivated while this story is read.  This story will become a familiar favorite that is read again and again during this glorious time of year.

The Story of the Root Children by Sibylle Von Olfers:  The version most familiar to me is called When the Root Children Wake Up by Audrey Wood.  The story line should be very similar though since this is the original.

In this endearing story, Mother Earth wakes the sleeping root children as winter fades and spring begins to bring new life.  You will travel through the seasons with these spirited young ones and meet Aunt Spring, Cousin Summer, and Studios Uncle Fall.  As winter approaches, the root children will be called back into the earth by Mother Earth as Grandfather Winter waits patiently for them to slumber.

This story makes the perfect read aloud and beginning to a new Ostara tradition.  You can make or purchase a root child to leave on your nature table on the Spring Equinox.  Read about one family’s tradition here.

Though the below sites might not actually contain “root children”, you are sure to find something that will work for your family.

Root Children Set from Blueberry Forest

Various Wooden Figure

Fairy Tale Figures

Bluebell Root Child

Spring Root Children

What stories are spring time favorites in your home?

What tradition do you already have in place for the return of spring?

What new tradition would you like to add this year?

Capturing the Elements

April 13, 2011 in Guests

Here in Las Vegas, even on a moonless night the sky is bright with street lights and casino lights; even the quieter subdivisions seem ever-lit by porch lamps carelessly allowed to burn throughout the always active, constantly busy, nights.

In the two years I have been here I cannot remember seeing a single star.

Our house sits on the corner of two streets lined with little houses deep in the middle of a fairly large subdivision.  Our backyard consists of a cement slab, surrounded by pink rocks, three high cement walls and three dry, barren looking “trees.”

I miss my home.

In some ways, moving to the desert has given me a new appreciation of what Earth is, and what Fire is.  It has also reminded me of the importance of family, of spirit, and of how lonely it can be when you feel relentlessly cut-off from or out-of-balance with the elements.

And yet, it was here in this barren treeless valley that I decided it was time to live a pagan life with my children.  It was here that I decided I could no longer hide who and what I really am, and so it is here that I struggle to find new ways to appreciate the unseen and the untouchable, for myself and for my children.

It is spring.

Yet the only environmental indicators of such are the rapidly rising temperatures by day, and the sudden infatuation the boys in the neighborhood have, once again, with baseball.  Today, despite my determination against it, I actually had to turn on the air conditioner, and I have to admit, that even my Jayson seems to have caught baseball fever.   I, however, feel we have skipped Spring entirely and are already well into another, hot, endless summer.

Which brings me to the point of this article –

“How do you teach your children to recognize and internalize the signs of the seasons if you cannot recognize or internalize them yourself?”

That is the question I have been asking myself a lot lately – and the other night, Grandmother Moon inspired in me, an answer.

“Find it,” she said, “find it and take a picture!”

So, that my friends’ is exactly what my children and I intend to do.  You’ve heard of, I’m sure, those photo-a-day challenges, or photo-every week- for a year challenges.  Well – we’re going to photograph the elements, every week, a few times a week, until we feel that we REALLY know them.   Whether it takes a few months, a few years, or a few decades – we are going to seek out and photograph the Elements, even, no- especially, when they seem no where to be found.

Yes – there will undoubtedly be the obvious: a photograph snapped of a flame for Fire, or a fountain for Water, maybe a bird caught mid-flight will represent Air and a rock for Earth; but as we explore and really seek out the Elementals, I’m hoping to see photographs of more discreet representations – Water represented by Old Age, or Air represented by Intellect or Inspiration; a photograph of a young child or the strength of muscular man to represent Earth and perhaps Fire will be represented by a simple snapshot of a newborn inhaling the breath of life for the very first time.

  • For myself, I take this challenge very… not seriously, but very deeply.  It is a challenge, to learn to see them where I have previously taken their presence for granted – to find them where they are not typically found.
  • For my oldest son, I wish to inspire him, to see the Elementals in their natural, obvious states, and to question them.  For every obvious photograph of Water, is there not also a representation of Fire?  Of Earth?  Of Air?  I seek to challenge him to see it, to feel them and to learn from them; to find balance in every manifestation.
  • For my younger children, including my oldest daughter – I wish simply to introduce them.  Just as we have walked 100 times before, physically touching and discovering the elements through nature walks and scavenger hunts – now through the eye of a camera, I wish them to discover the elements in things they cannot so easily touch or take with them; to find them in the bigger picture, and to find them within a smaller frame.

Now, instead, of a bag to bring home our treasures, we take with us our cameras and our field journals, and when we get home we can pull them up on the computer, discuss them, print them and create for ourselves our own private Book of Elements to grow with and to pass down through the generations.  And what a wonderful teaching tool it will be…

Blessings and Namaste,

Luhnna

Home-Schooling and Paganism

January 17, 2011 in Guests

homeschooling_homeAs a Home-Schooling Parent I find life is great!  Home Schooling and Paganism go hand in hand in lots of ways.  We have more time to spend with our children and can teach them about nature and Science in the same day and to look at things in a different perspective.

Most people today say “we don’t have time!!” or “We both have to work and life is too chaotic.” But we have found that home-schooling actually makes our lives easier.  We have a very relaxed schedule and can go where my daughter needs to be.  This actually has put her ahead of the game by one to two grade levels of most of the kids her age.

So Why Home-school?

My husband and I first discussed this very question when my daughter was first born. And after very little discussion we knew this was the way to go for us.  At four we started to seriously do kindergarten curriculum that we felt she was ready to do.  Now in the state of Florida the age to start homeschooling and recording information is actually six years of age. Another reason why we home-school is that nature Walks and pets are a big part of our life.  So they can be a part of our curriculum.

We incorporate religion regularly as she’s usually my hubby’s guinea pig for his blog “PaganDad”.  It is Paganism that leads us into history lessons, science and nature lessons, vocabulary, and of course religion.  This is a huge reason to home-school if you’ve ever thought about trying it out.

Socialization

Now don’t get me wrong, home-schooling isn’t always easy and isn’t for everyone.  Some kids need the school environment to thrive but we have found that our daughter does well without it.  One of the most oft-asked questions I hear so many people ask is, “What about the socialization aspect?”  And by the gods I hate that question as so do many of the home-schoolers I know.  How is a child that runs around Home-shcooling Co-Ops and Girl Scouts with all those other kids be unsocialized?  Now don’t get me wrong I’ve met a couple of very shy home-schooled kids but most of the ones I know, you would think go to school.

Just remember life isn’t a race to see who can get there the fastest although that is one of societies biggest lessons that is taught to kids in schools today. To be the best and finish first with the best time.  I find that this actually makes some of us the worst kinds of people. It creates a culture full of people preoccupied with themselves and not concerned about the welfare of others.  And it should be everyone’s goal to teach their kids that the true meaning of life, is becoming a spiritually self-fulfilled and a good person.